aven !

23 he/she aroace
disabled, neurodivergent
system + mentally ill

Yes Yes! weather, music (especially composing and choir), business, risk management, pokèmon, d&d, jurassic park, fullmetal alchemist, organizing/space maximization, cooking, coffee, statistics, final fantasy: unlimited, psychology, choir, clarinet, percussion, logistics, blankets, home decor, my writing/worldbuilding, plushies, crochet, painting, art, space, my dog, my job, microsoft excel, discord server building, activism, stardew valley, snacks, making new friends

About me! i'm 23 y/o and i live in the USA. i'm autistic, ADHD, OCD, and bipolar. i'm physically disabled, always have been. i speak english, PSE (second language), ASL (still learning), a decent amount of german, and for some reason i've chosen to pick up latin and finnish - those are a work in progress. i have a bachelor's degree in global business with a focus in risk management and insurance. my minor was in fine and performing arts. i am a manager for a bookstore/cafe.

BYF! i have memory issues due to very poor working memory. i don't like getting tied up in drama and i do not do syscourse related to origins. i'm a bit awkward at first, but i have lots of memes and jokes to share. i'm a disabled person with lots of hobbies and a job, so replies can be slow sometimes.i reclaim the slur "cripple" for myself.people who post in or support fakedisordercringe or systemscringe, please stay away from me and get a hobby other than being ableist on the internet. cringe culture is dead anyway. i killed it with fire.please don't bother interacting with me if you frequently interact with the users lady-quen/kazeofthemagun/kumoofthemaken, sketchmog, auricbound, sunxsin, mundmutter (kosm), galeleads (rose), or wyrdify/flameleads/hawksights (fate). i don't want to be affiliated with them or see them on my dash anymore. i am possibly willing to share in IMs, but otherwise leave me out of it.

FAQ! what is your stance on syscourse?
i don't like the vitriol or the suibaiting and racism present on all sides. please go touch grass instead of doxxing people. complex dissociative disorders are trauma disorders, but denying other forms of plurality is a very western-centric viewpoint that i am trying to unlearn as it denies cultural and spiritual experiences. at the same time, i believe endogenic plurality is a different experience than mine.don't you have DID?
yes, however i've recently reached a point of functional multiplicity/fusion - all of my parts are still here, and sometimes i lean into one more than others, but there's definitely a "whole" in the middle of the clump.are you diagnosed?
yes, i am formally diagnosed with everything i've chosen to list. i also have other diagnoses i keep private.do you support AI?
generative AI that makes use of IP without getting the consent of the copyright holders can burn.